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[Episode 11] [2018, before the school starts.] [The Meeting of Session Change of the Senior Year Parent-teacher Committee] The merger of the two schools implies that the parent-teacher committees of the schools will also be combined. At present, the vice president of the new committee is to be elected by ballot. Now it’s time for
The candidates to introduce themselves. Hello, everyone. I am Shen Hao, [Shen Hao] the father of Shen Yao [One of Xingzhou’s Top Entrepreneurs] from Peach Plum Class 2, Senior 3. [Guo Yun] I’m Guo Yun, Jiang Qinglang’s mother. [Chief Physician of Xingzhou Hospital] I’m Guo Yun, Jiang Qinglang’s mother.
I’m the father of Zhao Qingqing from Peach Plum Class 2. [Ryan] You may call me [Manager of a streetwear brand] Ryan or Zhao. I was the captain of the debate team of Qingbei back in the university, so I may be helpful in external communication and many activities of the school. Whether I am
Elected as the vice president, my company will provide new computers to replace the old ones of this school. Good. Well said. Well said. Hello. I’m Feng Yan, the mother of Yu Yang from Peach Plum Class 5. Those bosses said so well just now, but I actually don’t know what to say.
Anyway, I’ll do whatever the school asks. Yo, guys. I’m the real father of Zeng Wenhao from Pine Cypress Class 4 and I do engineering business. I used to be on the parent-teacher committee of Longhai. Since it’s our first time meeting, I’ll hand out my business cards later, all right?
As the old saying goes, like begets like. You all seem to be educated people, but we have suffered from being illiterate. Since we didn’t study before, we want our children to learn more. So here’s my word, if I become the vice president, my donation to the school shall be this figure. Good.
All right, smile. Be glad. [The Vice President of the Parent-teacher Committee of Minglong] [Like begets like, ___?] Welcome back, guys. Now I can finally tell you the truth. Indeed your three days off were a trap for you. So? Feel it. Look at yourselves and the guys around. What do you feel now?
Different from the beginning of the training? Precisely, this is the last class of the training for ten days. Come, Ms. Sang. Still remember the sheet of your parents’ weekend schedule you filled in before? I also told five students of Peach Plum Class 5 to do so. Ms. Sang made
A pie chart for you to compare them easily. Let’s check it out. Those five ones are from Peach Plum Class 5. The green [Parents’ Schedule of Peach Plum Class] represents the time for study and work, [Schedule] the orange represents sports time, the red represents leisure and entertainment time, including watching TV,
Playing with phones and games, and the white represents the sleeping time. Those five sheets [Parents’ Schedule of Class 11, Senior 3] [Student 1] are about your parents. [Student 2] [Student 3] [Student 4] Remember the question [Student 5] I gave you? Why’s there a huge gap in studying habits between
Peach Plum Class and Pine Cypress Class? That is the answer. What do you mean? What does it have to do with the families? Of course, it does. I gave you three days off so you could go home to see clearly what you have witnessed since your childhood. If I guess it right,
Your parents always used their habits in life to lead yours. Or they used endless trifles, quarrels and helplessness to erode your time. It sounds arbitrary, but correct basically. The habit of studying is formed in the long term. The students of Peach Plum Class cherish time and even snatch time because their parents
Are masters of time management who work hard, study smartly and make plans brilliantly. Entering leading colleges is not their ultimate goal, but just an ordinary thing, so the students of Peach Plum Class dare not to waste time. Wait. My mom is a workaholic and though my dad isn’t, he’s self-disciplined too,
But why can’t I be like them? It’s a good thing to have two elites at home, but are they on the same side? If they stand against each other without compromising, you’ve had contradictory instructions since you were a boy. It’s called two positives make a negative. Great.
So it’s still a competition of family background and the thing of like begets like. Lei, did they make those choices? They have to support the family and live on, is it fair to say that? No. It’s not fair to talk about them in that way, but there are many things in this world
That are supposed to be fair, right? For instance, time. Each minute and second is the same for all of us. If you purchase a VIP membership for Disneyland, you will have special access. If you go to a foreign-related hospital, you may save the trouble of waiting in line. And the air,
We’re breathing the same air, right? But assume your home has a fresh air system and his home doesn’t, do you still breathe the same air? That’s right. This is an unfair game and you can’t have the fairness by complaining here. I know ten days of training couldn’t change your years-long habits.
I also know that you can’t be watched by me here all your life. No matter how many times I confiscate your phones, and correct your bad habits, once you go home, everything resumes within 72 hours. So the one who can really change yourself isn’t someone else, but yourself.
Here’s the conclusion of this class. Cheng Yushan, don’t you want to get away from the family of origin? Start by getting away from the concept you disagree with. Li Ran. Don’t you complain about the unfairness? Clear this unfair game if you’re capable enough and establish the fairness
You can accept when you have the power. Guys, in the next year, you’re just yourselves. You don’t belong to any habit or anybody. On study, leave your parents, your family and your habits. Though like begets like, remember this, you may fill in the blanks all by yourself in the future. [THE HOPE]
357 plus 350 plus 315 plus 325 plus 255. Clear. Qiao. [Prosperous Business] Qiao, come here. Come. What for? Just come here. All right. What is it? See it yourself. What’s it? It’s short of 10, 000 yuan. 10, 000 yuan? Hi, Yushan. Yushan’s back. Yushan. Come upstairs to have dinner. What money? It’s about
The balance sheet reconciliation, 10, 000 yuan is missing. We’re afraid that you were conned. Just tell us if you didn’t take it. Your dad won’t wrong you. Higher. Higher. Higher. Dad. Dad. She did it. She did it. How did I steal your money when I was training at school? Didn’t you
Spend three days off at home? Besides, who knows if you really went for training? Here’s the phone. Ask my teacher if I was training. How could you talk to me like this? Your female teacher doesn’t seem to be a decent person, I’m sure she’ll cover you. Why are you mad
If your conscience is clear? My conscience isn’t clear? Why don’t you ask your own son? How do you know I didn’t? He said he didn’t take it. Why did he need so much money as a middle school student? All right. Just apologize to him. Zhou Weifeng, can’t you spend your CCTV cameras
On something useful? Come. Look into it now. We’ll help you. We will help you to look into it hour by hour and day by day. Change your surname to mine if you can’t find the truth. What’re you talking about? How long will it take to check so many videos? What?
You won’t admit it unless you’re caught red-handed? Just look into it. What’re you doing? Remember what you said. – What are you doing? – Who knows what you did in your room? What’re you doing? She just closes her door to learn the crap every day.
How did you get the money to buy them? – Calm down, Bo. – How… – Chill. – How did you get the money? Enough. Be quiet. You spoiled her. She needs some respect since she’s no longer a kid. Let her tell me, did I ever treat her poorly?
[Magic Comic] What does she learn? How did she buy those things? Yushan. – Yushan is a good kid. – Go away. – Get out. – Bo. Don’t worry. They’re just having a fight. You just have fun. Tell me when you need tea. Go ahead and play. Take a look under the bed.
I can help you if you can’t squat. Yushan. That’s enough. Step aside. Did you hear her? Did you hear her? That’s the way she talks to me. If I hadn’t taken them in, she and her mother would’ve been wandering on the street. Take it easy, Bo. Right. Bo
Raises you as his real daughter, so you shall be grateful. All right. Let’s play mahjong. Yushan. Apologize to your dad now. He’s not my dad, my dad passed away long ago. Yushan. Very well. You shall no longer live here, I can’t support you. Please. – Be quiet. – Don’t be mad.
– Just calm down. – Grab your things. Leave. – Leave right now. – Don’t do that, Bo. – Yushan is still a child. – Get out now. Is the money in it? Give it to me. Let go. We can discuss it calmly. Give it to me. Now. Just wait. Yushan. Yushan. Yushan.
Let me see if the money is in it. Step aside. Multiply by Three. Our teacher told you to go back to the school. Hey. My secret gift. [Beef and rice noodles, spicy like hell.] [Finish it within 90 seconds to get your secret gift.] So this is the so-called secret gift? We were deceived.
I was seven when I came Xingzhou for the first time, my dad bought me a fish. That one, it looked like that one. I gave her a name, Sophie. We took a bus to go back to our hometown, I held her all the way and didn’t want to let go. I was thinking
That Sophie must be the prettiest fish in our hometown. Guess what happened the next day? Sophie was eaten by a wild cat and only her tail was left. So I learned one thing since then, a pretty thing like her couldn’t survive in our place
And she can only be safe in a large city. Even if I’m judged, compared and despised by others, I’ll do my best to gain their favor in order to stay in this city. I know you don’t like me, but you don’t dislike me either, right? And I know you didn’t steal the money.
Why? There’s no reason. I just believe it. – (The parents) – (Lei Ming.) – (have their responsibilities.) – (Say something.) – (They need the parents’ care.) – (Lei Ming.) – (How will it affect the children?) – (Let them pay attention to it.) Sorry. Hello. Hello. Please sit. So you are the bestie of my blind date introduced by my aunt? And so you’re the sociopath who manipulates my bestie at work? So you knew we’d have a blind date? Bai Lu showed me the photo of the man she’ll date. Honestly, it was retouched too much,
But I still could tell it was someone. I am just warning you two kindly. But this Lei ignored me for a whole day. Hold on. Something’s not right. Since I’d date him, shouldn’t you warn me? I warned you. – I just… – Ms. Sang. We knocked off already, so could you
Discuss business tomorrow? It can’t be delayed. Remember I told you in the training to draw a house, tree and person? Yeah, a stupid game. You’re stupid. Check it out. Can you see something wrong? Look. The drawing is lower, so she’s good at concealing her thoughts and feels insecure. She has to keep
What she wants in her hands tightly, so she has a strong psychological defence. The house represents the relationship between one’s growth and her family. Look at this house, it’s sealed and dark which is full of hostility, especially to her family. Cheng Yushan? Yeah. And check this out. This one.
– Hold on. – This is… Dear teachers, I know you’re all way too numb, but I can get that. But ignoring me like this… Aren’t you going too far? No. Look, I haven’t decided to break with you. As for this young man with an antisocial personality, I’m not interested in him at all.
So you two may discuss it carefully here and I will have rice noodles in the next door. Call me if you need help, or if he picks on you. – I… – Bye. – Bye. – I mean… Its house and person are all formed by simple lines. The figure faces the house
Which means she’s trying so hard to communicate with her family. She’s prone to please the others by effort. Even I can tell who she is. Bian Xiaoxiao. Now we’re talking. That’s the idea. And check this. It was drawn by Yu Yang. It took me a while to find the person in the window.
What’s the conclusion? He may hide in it or he doesn’t want to come out at all. Despired, anxious and helpless. And then this. It’s Jiang Qinglang’s. Isn’t Jiang Qinglang’s drawing positive? It’s normal relatively, but something’s wrong with the house, too. Look. No chimney, but there’s a big sun. What does it mean?
The warmth comes from the outside instead of the inside of the house. So this family means nothing to him. He dares not to tell the others his true desires. But what worries me the most is Li Ran. The drawing is full of uncertainties. The house, tree and person are dispersed and askew
Which represents his torn self-awareness and intense conflict inside. So he gets rash easily. What does the family mean to him since he finished the house roughly? No concept, nor does he want to know it. The bark is a symbol of one’s communication with the others. This one is covered with scars,
So he has many mental traumas. He wants to escape, but he doesn’t know where to go. So? So, the last class of your training was just half. Showing the students that their inner deficiency and habit was caused by their families’ influences was just the first step, but you forgot the second step.
The parents shall learn the problem, too. I’m not here to ask for your opinion, but to inform you that I’ll hold a teacher-parent meeting. The question is if we have that time, Ms. Sang. There will be research on the psychological health of teachers, which may be postponed.
And I can also hand in the copies of your drawing late. Two glasses of The Same Rotten Taste. They were ordered by the lady who just left. Please enjoy. [255 days before the college entrance exam.] When will you buy new automatic mahjong tables? Soon. [The Entrance Exam for the Parents]
Why do they test us instead of the students? Since it’s a teacher-parent meeting, you shall be the protagonists, not them. Ms. Sang. Why didn’t you inform us in advance so we’d prepare for it? You don’t have to be prepared, there are just two questions. I hope you can think carefully and answer seriously.
The first question, true or false? I think I’m a good parent, raise your hand if you think you are. You answered it swiftly and uniformly without hesitation. Each of you is a good parent. OK. Let’s answer the second one. The second question is a questionnaire. It’s so simple
That you can fill it in 5 minutes. It’s quite simple. Just do it. [255 days before the college entrance exam.] You’re all done? OK. Thanks for your cooperation. I majored in psychology and now I’m a psychological counselor. This questionnaire will provide us with clues to help us to summarize the kinds of parents.
Don’t be pigeon-holing, but you’re welcome to reflect on yourselves. [Four kinds of parents, no pigeon-holing but welcome to do self-reflection.] The first kind is parents of excessive competition. That kind of parents emphasizes excessive competition in the child’s study and life. They try to prove their own capability or post with the children’s performance.
So they may ignore their kids’ personalities and interests which influences their health mentally and physically. The second kind is parents of manipulation. What does that mean? They educate the kids with their own thoughts and interfere in their lives from the planning of life and choosing courses to their habits and clothes.
They want their children to follow their thoughts exactly. Such parents seem to care about their kids, but in fact, they care about their efforts. I’ve done all those things for you. All the things I’ve sacrificed are for your sake. They seem to love the kids wholeheartedly, but it is
A desire to control essentially. They’re kidnapping the kids with love and effort, so they have to obey you and even fear you. It’s not me luckily. It’s not me she’s talking about. The third kind is quite easily neglected in our daily lives, parents of evasion. They choose to evade
The problems or conflicts of the family as well as educational responsibilities and challenges. When the kids need understanding and faith, they choose to ignore it. They usually hypnotize themselves by telling them everything will be fine. As time goes by, the kids lose their faith and sense of security in the family.
The fourth is called parents of excessive indulgence. They don’t have effective discipline and supervision in the family. They indulge the kids in their behaviors and decisions. So the kids lack responsibilities and even form bad behaviors and habits. Ms. Sang. You want us to be pigeon-holing or take precautions?
I’m not talking about you certainly, however, I’d like to share some cases I found in the questionnaires before. There was a kid whose parents didn’t respect his privacy and personal space. They always check the messages on their son’s phone and computer. One day, the kid could no longer bear it
And ran away from home. Even now, he’s still working in Guangzhou. In another case, this mother chose to keep silent and said nothing when she knew her child was wronged at a relative’s party. She also failed to stop her husband or protect her child when the child was scolded by him.
So the child felt betrayed and helpless, then that child turned around and jumped off the building. Shame. Actually, this test today began from the first day you became a parent. Certainly, I’m not judging you, I just hope you can think about it. When you thought you were good parents
And handed in the test papers with confidence, you were so wrong on each question actually. Then what shall we do, Ms. Sang? In that case, we are all big bad wolves. Aren’t your words too one-sided? It’s fine, Ms. Sang, just tell us directly what to do.
[From now on, have faith in your kids, don’t pay excessive attention to them.] Right. That’s the meaning literally. From now on, don’t pay excessive attention to your children. Kahlil Gibran said this in the 19th century. “Your children are not your children. They come through you but not from you.”
Gibran was right on that point, but let me say something more. First, don’t always try to instruct your kids at home because they may be smarter than you. Do their tests if you don’t believe my words. Second, don’t arrange too much for them, and don’t worry about them too much because
They may be maturer, firmer, more independent and self-disciplined than you. They may also have more good qualities you don’t know. In the end, don’t bond your care with their good performance as well as a good future. Not to mention trying to kidnap your children with your love. Each day will be
Like a war for your children in the next year. In this war, maybe what they really need is not what you thought. The test today is over, but don’t worry, you may take a make-up exam each day. [Weifeng’s Card Room] [Maths] Why’s the money back in the shoe box? It seems
You did wrong Yushan. She didn’t do it. I’m not so sure. Maybe she put it back because she felt guilty. Hey, could it be Xuan? On the day you received the money, he seemed to be so flustered and stealthy. Are you suspecting your own son? Mom. Shall we eat? I’m starving.
Won’t you go to pick up Liang today? Enter an address for me. No. 8 of Yueli Bay. Building B. Room 1003. Go to ask your dad if he’ll go home to have supper since it’s your birthday. Could I not go? That’s spectacular. What a talented girl. How about playing a Chopin tune?
Did that tune bring you and Hao together? Mr. Shen is going to hold a concert for you, so don’t be so reserved. Wei, don’t listen to their nonsense. Even if we do it, it shall be a piano duet. All right. Do Piano Duet. Did you ask him? What was his answer? Nothing.
How old is that woman? 25? What does she do? Around 25. She seems to do music. What happened to your hand? Let’s go. Your dad is dating girls younger. Anyway, fortunately, I just asked the property management company. He rented the flat for her, not bought it. Do you believe it?
Your dad will be tired of her within three months. Mom. I’m hungry. Dear boy, happy birthday. Eat when it’s hot. OK. Don’t break the birthday noodles. So much meat. Don’t break them. Let me show you something. Just count it to see how many zeros. It’s almost six figures.
It wasn’t easy for me to save it. I even rented out the house in our hometown as a warehouse. You don’t need to think about saving money now. Just focus on the study and test. I’m sure our life will grow better. Come on. Make a wish.
I bought a big cake for Shen Yao and got a small one for free. They thought it was for me. It’s the same. It’ll be the same in the belly. OK. Make a wish. Wish my granny a long life. I wish my kid could enter Qingbei. [THE HOPE] ♪Every hour♪
♪I feel the thunder roaring tapping♪ ♪On my shoulder♪ ♪Find the power♪ ♪Meet the challenges face-to-face♪ ♪We have each other♪ ♪Maybe♪ ♪This is not the life you want for♪ ♪But don’t give up♪ ♪We have tomorrow♪ ♪Someday♪ ♪We will earn the prize we fight for♪ ♪Every setback♪ ♪Says that I’m the fighter♪ ♪Dry your tears♪
♪Tame your fears♪ ♪What doesn’t kill us♪ ♪Make us strong♪ ♪Show the world♪ ♪Power♪ ♪Brighter than the sun♪ ♪Burning like a star♪ ♪Free to love and run♪ ♪Because we’re so young♪ ♪There’s someone loving you♪ ♪Just for who you are♪ ♪Let thunders roar♪ ♪Brighter than the sun♪ ♪Burning like a star♪
♪Free to love and run♪ ♪Because we’re so young♪ ♪There’s someone loving you♪ ♪Just for who you are♪ ♪Let thunders roar♪ ♪In your heart♪